Getting Counseling

Before you and your same-sex partner decide divorce is the right step to end your union, you should both consider going into marriage counseling. The good news is that because so many same-sex couples are coming forth with their public unions, more and more therapists are taking the extra step to get trained in counseling services specific to your needs as a gay couple. You can find a gay marriage counselor -- or at least a Marriage and Family Therapist with experience in gay issues -- through Internet research in your area, using the search term "gay therapist" or "gay counseling." You can also consult your local gay and lesbian community organization for assistance in finding a good therapist.